I help women stop settling or searching for ‘the one’ and instead BECOME THE ONE.
Self-Love Coach - Author - Speaker
Hello beautiful soul. I am Colinda, acclaimed author and internationally accredited self-love coach.
I am here to guide women on a journey of transformation—helping them stop searching for love in all the wrong places or settling, and instead discover it within themselves. Through the powerful practice of self-love, they can experience a shift that brings lasting peace, joy, and fulfilment.
Shaped by a childhood of instability and demands to be better, I found myself constantly seeking validation outside of me—believing that if I could just achieve more, give more, I’d finally be worthy of love.
This left me feeling lost, unlovable, and disconnected.
Years of unhealthy relationships and constantly striving to meet impossible expectations, all in the hope that external success would finally bring me love, led me to ask myself: Is this really what I want?
And when the answer came, it was clear: All I truly desired was to live in a state of love—deep, unconditional self-love. A love so full that nothing I achieved could define my worth. This realisation sparked the creation of my 31-Day Full-On Love Challenge, featured in my book Living in Love, designed to help women step into the love they deserve, starting from within.
The challenge shifted my perspective, allowing me to trust in divine timing and set goals with love. I now live a fulfilling life, authored a book, and enjoy peace and abundance. Recognising the power of self-love, I became a self-love coach, guiding others to stop seeking ‘the one’ and become THE ONE, embracing self-love and worth.
Our Mission
Believing that self-love is the root of all love, we aim to empower as many people as possible to put love into action. Our mission is to help people fill their hearts with so much love – that there is simply no space left for fear, hate, and anger to exist. Through simple yet profound acts of love, we truly believe we can change the world.
For more about my story, visit About Colinda.
Wanting to help other women like me, I designed my signature programme:
Stop Settling, Start Thriving: The Love-Me First Method
16 Weeks to Love Yourself Fiercely, Own Your Worth, and Say goodbye to Toxic Relationships for Good
Are you tired of looking for love in all the wrong places, only to end up feeling empty, unworthy, and more disconnected than ever?
Have you found yourself chasing relationships, hoping that someone else would make you feel loved and valued, only to be left heartbroken or feeling like you’re not enough?
Does the pain of past relationships or unmet expectations weigh heavily on your heart, making it hard to believe that true love—real, unconditional love—could ever be yours?
If any of this resonates with you, it’s time to stop searching for love outside yourself and start discovering the self-love that’s always been within.
In Stop Settling, Start Thriving, I’ll guide you through a deep transformation where you’ll learn to heal from past hurts, let go of old patterns, and finally break free from the cycle of seeking validation in the wrong places. You’ll build a life of confidence, joy, and inner peace, anchored in the love for yourself that doesn’t depend on anyone else.
This method is your invitation to stop settling for relationships and situations that leave you feeling unfulfilled. It’s time to stop the heartache and start embracing the love you deserve—from within.
Living in Love:
How to Create a Lifestyle of Love, Faith, Bliss, and Crazy-Ass Manifesting (All in Thirty-One Days)
Think of something you love. Now, really concentrate on how wonderful it makes you feel. Next, contemplate feeling like that most of the time, like your life is a warm embrace. Think about how this would impact the people you interact with and the places you go. If even a small percentage of the population decided to live in this close-to-constant loving state, it would have a far-reaching influence. People would be going about their lives in a kinder, gentler fashion.
Wherever you are on your path of love—be it self-love, familial, romantic, or any form of love—I invite you to read Living in Love and introduce yourself to a new way of living; a way of life where love is at the forefront of all your actions, thoughts, words, and gestures; a way of life where you don’t even have to think about it. You are just love, the very state we are meant to be.